MEN HAVE GOT FOUR STAGES!

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EVERYONE has learnt about the evolution of man through history, but this is not what I’m going to discuss. At least men and women go through various changes or stages to their maturity and today I’m handing you some secrets about stages of men in relationship wise.

This will also help you ladies in your dating game so as you will know your guy better, if he is for really or else. As men, we go through stages of development, check out:

EXPLORATION
This stage happens in men from about age 12-17. This is when the guy is still a virgin (I can see you wonder, men tend to be virgins to, don’t you know that?). He falls in love easily and is faithful, because he does not know what it means to be unfaithful.

He is still exploring the possibilities therefore; he is excited when he finds ANYTHING. This is the time that most girls capitalize on their prize guy. He can be molded at this time to the MAN you want him to be. Girls, if you don't get a man at this stage in the game, you might be in trouble.

EXPERIMENTATION
This stage happens in men between the ages of 18-25. This is when everything is an experiment or a project. A guy in this stage probably has a wifey but yet has a more convenient girl upstairs that does what wifey doesn't. He holds wifey in high standards, so he doesn't burden her with his fantasy of sexual needs.

He experiments on his 2, or 3. He experiments how much his 1 will take. He tries his 1 in public and apologies behind the scenes. He doesn't want to lose wifey but he does not yet know her worth.

If you are in a relationship with a guy in this stage, Good Luck!! This is the stage that MOST, not all, But most men are cheating, creeping, and just plain out dogging women. But it's up to you to stand up and say, ‘I’m not taking that dish!’ If you don't, you just become another project.

CONTEMPLATION

This stage is real short. It is between the ages of 26-27. During this stage, the guy is pretty much studying his past relationships to see what he did wrong, what girls did him wrong and what he has to do to obtain a good girl.

A man in the contemplation stage is a good man to begin a relationship with, but it's going to be hard. He is going to be closed and secretive. Not because he is creeping, but because he does not trust. He has done his dirt in his earlier stages and now he sees these same traits in women. He is watching his footing.

He will give you only necessary information. Don't expect him to volunteer any information! A man in this stage cannot be molded. He is already set in his ways, you can only compliment what he has already established.

REALITY

This is the stage you want to cop a husband ladies. If you have not locked him down in Exploration or found one in Experimentation or Contemplation, here is your chance. This stage is open ended. It runs from 28-marriage.

This gentleman is the nicest. He is understanding. He is ready to find wifey but he can pick apart ANY woman who does not have wifey traits. He will wine you and dine you and of course he will sex you, BUT one flaw and you will be back burner. If you are true, he is true, if you are not true, he is 3x's as dangerous as a guy in stage 2! During stage 4 a man realizes his mistakes even more than in stage 3.

He has seen half of his Ex's that he thought he loved, move on and be married. Every marriage takes a toll on him. It tears a piece of his heart out but yet makes him stronger because the reality is, he messed up during his earlier stages.

Well I hope this breakdown helps you ladies find the right man. I'm seeing too many of you guys cling on to someone who doesn't understand your worth. Too many "good" guys are running around here single. It’s up to you then and wishing you a nice weekend!

CONCLUSION:

Well, with all those four stages which I have mentioned above, there certain comes another stage where a man wishes to do something but fails due to lack of power. This is the time of old age, which according to recent data on life-span, it runs from 55 years.

There is a saying which states that; “30 is the old age of youth, and 40 is the youth of old age!” So when a man reaches 55 or above that age, he craves for pleasures he once had during the past stages. And frankly speaking, on this age most men do like young girls as they were the ones who tested them how love life was. They despise women of their age as old and cant give them the test of life.

It is no wonder then that in our community you might find a man old enough to be grandpa chasing girls of secondary schools hoping that they could make him feel like and 25 years old boy. They lure these girls with various gifts and monies. Actually they often don’t have ample time to seduce the girls due to the bridge of their age, and they use these gifts instead.

But on the contrary, not all men who are good in bed when they reach that old age. Most of them appear to enjoy the tenderness of young ladies rather than commit the required action in bed. And to preserve their secrets they give these ladies more than what they would have given to someone.

And this is what make them avoid women of their age group who also tend to like men of tender age hoping they would make them enjoy and remember their girlhood.

So, again, ladies, you have gone through this discussion and now it’s you time to decide what you choose and how to cope with men of different ages.

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