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Perpetual* is a troubled woman. Evening is approaching and her husband is not yet home.
A
farmer’s wife in Gionseri, Kisii County, she bade her husband goodbye
in the morning as he went to check on the family’s tea bonus from the
Kenya Tea Development Agency (KTDA).
Her family’s two-acre farm is expected to raise a Sh30,000 bonus at the end of the month.
Ordinarily,
this money should be enough to clear the school fees of her firstborn
son now studying in secondary school or be used for some other
worthwhile purpose.
“Instead of using the money on our
family’s needs, my husband goes missing for a few days as soon as he
receives the bonus,” she says.
Perpetual says this is not the first time it will occur, saying it is an established pattern in the home.
“It
is always like this whenever the bonus payment period arrives. He must
take off for a few days and enjoy a large part of it in Kisii town
nightclubs,” says the mother of five.
Her plight is due to the annual increase in prostitution in tea-farming counties.
Kisii,
Nyamira and Bomet counties expect to receive a boon this week, and that
has seen a rise in skimpily-dressed visitors in the evenings.
Given
KTDA’s recent announcement that this year’s bonuses will be the highest
in five years, a number of twilight girls have trooped to the two
regions, ready to have a share from men who receive their windfall.
As a result, there are many wives facing Perpetual’s fate.
A
housewife in Bomet, who requested anonymity for fear of reprisals, says
she only prays that her husband gets the cash and remains at home to
meet the family’s financial obligations.
“In most
cases, I am in the farm plucking tea but when the money comes, my
husband, being the head of the family, wants to enjoy what he did not
sow just because the farm is his,” she said.
Fanice*, another distressed farmer’s wife, speaks of the endless fights that characterise her home over the bonus period.
“My
husband seems determined not to change. Whenever he receives the bonus,
it’s like a demon takes possession of him,” says Fanice, a resident of
Mwongori in Nyamira County.
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She
says her spouse will always start arguments over trivial matters when
the bonus season arrives, which culminates in her receiving a serious
beating.
Interestingly, the twilight girls who have
descended into the two neighbouring counties appear to have migrated
from Narok, where farmers have recently harvested wheat.
A commercial sex worker in Bomet said she expects to reap Sh500,000 in 10 days in the South Rift town.
In Kisii, a call-girl said she and her “colleagues” have learnt to study cash flows in various urban centres across Kenya.
“Sometimes the tip-off comes from one of my farmer customers who gives me a call,” she says.
Satellite
shopping centres on the Kisii-Kilgoris highway like Itumbe, Kiogoro,
Magena and even far-away towns like Lolgorien are likely places for
these farmers looking to hide from wives and children as they enjoy the
company of twilight girls.
Care Volunteers In
Partnership — Kenya Chapter (Cavip-K), an organisation dedicated to
improving the economic wellbeing of farmers, acknowledges there is a
problem.
Cavip’s communications director Oyugi Nyamache
says there is a need to educate farmers in the area on prudent
financial management as well as incorporating responsible sexual
behaviour.
“While some go for the twilight girls,
others end up marrying several wives and having concubines, which
impoverishes their families and exposes them to sexually transmitted
infections,” Mr Nyamache says.
In Bomet, Governor Isaac
Ruto and County Commissioner Bernard Leparmarai have been appealing to
farmers to invest their earnings on gainful ventures rather than engage
in destructive leisure activities.
SOURCE: NATION
SOURCE: NATION
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